“In other words there is no such thing as marriage, it is without form or definition, it is whatever anyone says it is.”
No. There is no such thing as ‘gay marriage’, it is without reason or possibility, despite whatever the state says or punishments it may bring on those who reject its nonsense definition of ‘gay marriage.’
Freegards
According to you, if a gay church wants gay marriage, then so be it, just like polygamy, because churches, which of course would include non-churches and atheists, define marriage.
Your rule is that in America, churches, Mosques, and Mormon temples, atheist churches, gay churches, weird cults, and so on all define marriage. I don’t understand how that works when marriage needs to be recognized by the law, for instance in divorce, or with military benefits, pensions and so on.