Actually he was not very willing, I had to do most of it while he went off to play with his boat.
I just wanted to check and make sure you were all good! You responded to me, and then responded to me again about an hour and a half later differently.
You sound like a very strong and capable woman and I'm mostly sure you were kind of... adding to the story? Sharing different details?
But if you didn't remember your first answer and then you answered again, you should immediately let someone know.
Feel free to call me an idiot for checking. It won't hurt my feelings. :p