“I do not remember anyone this was done to in my lifetime”
I think that military officers have a different standard. They have a code of ethics that forbid extramarital affairs. Isn’t that is a long standing ethic.
Can’t fight with someone who can’t keep a promise to his wife.
Eisenhower, as chief of the European theater during WWII had an affair with his woman driver - I think her name was Kay Summersby - and then he went on to serve two terms as president.