How shallow you are!
Men are visual, more so than women. It does not make myself or men who think like myself “shallow,” any more than women who obsess on how much money a man makes, for suitability for dating or marriage.
I agree with Rochester.. like my women fit...would never date or marry a chubby or fat women no matter how nice they are personality wise..
The problem we have in todays society is fat acceptance and it should not be that way..no reason for any person to be fat..very unfair to their spouse if they were thin before marriage and got fat afterwards..would be serious grounds for divorce in my book.