If a woman isn't cool with that, she should send the guy packing.
BTW, in my case, my ex gf went ballistic and told every gal she knew. A bunch of harpies descended on me to try and shame me into taking her back. I live in a lefty area, and those gals were PISSED. Even my Mom (who is a big Lib) took up for my ex-gf and tried to shame me into taking her back.
I told them all the same thing: I didn't care that my ex-gf was "empowered". She could just go be "empowered" somewhere else.
You held fast to your standards and that’s good.