Romney agrees with Giuliani (and Obama, Bidenb, Ted Kennedy, Reid, Pelosi, et al) on gays serving in the military:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWjehgwTgp0
He says we have bigger problems to solve. Like socialized healthcare, mandates, gun control, stimulus spending, shamnesty, global warming, and ensuring Roe v Wade is upheld as settled law, etc.
http://caucuses.desmoinesregister.com/2011/12/09/romney-says-he-hasnt-changed-stance-on-gay-rights/
Dec 9, 2011:
On allowing gays to serve openly in the military:
Thats already occurred. Im not planning on reversing that at this stage. I was not comfortable making the change during a period of conflict, due to the complicating features of a new program in the middle of two wars going on, but those wars are winding down, and moving in that direction at this stage no longer presents that problem.