[what's up]

I would hazard that they are acting out what was done to them.

This is most likely true. The bright line among them is between those who seek help because they know it's wrong and those who refuse to admit it's wrong and blame everyone else for their situation.

[Carry_Okie]

The bright line among them is between those who seek help because they know it's wrong...

I think it's innate. When Christ said He would write the Mosaic Law on our hearts, in a way, it was already there for us to hear.