In my youth there were God Damned few males who could better me. They tried and they failed.
Like you they were not only ignorant they were arrogant. But me being a God Damned cunning female managed to beat them at their game not only physically but mentally and emotionally as well. They went home with their tales between their legs.
The military cannot afford to play games with soldiering, nor with slots to schools that are already far too rare, you probably don't know that many Rangers already do not get to go to Ranger school because there are too few slots, same with HALO, and HAHO, Submarine insertions, International LRRP School, cross training with their counterparts in the SAS, 13th Regiment, the Danes and on and on and on.
The military elites are desperate for more training, the last thing they need is to dilute it and introduce more ticket punchers, and in the case of females, the end of excellance.
By the way when you were young and fiercely defeating all the men of the world, was any of that in the military?
I was young, I listened to people like you and believed that the Military was no place for women. I was a fool. BTW, I only defeated the mediocre males, not the great ones. : )