Just think, none of this would have happened if they both or either one, had done things differently!!!
That is the logic of a five year old opining "what if the world never existed?"
It doesn't lead to knowledge or wisdom of anything. It's the intellectual equivalent of a dog chasing its own tail. It's a journey between point A and point A covering no ground in between.
"Just think, if the girl didn't look good she never would have been raped."
Same thing. It's just a means for turning cause and effect on its head and blaming the existence of people for what happens to people while they exist.