“Michelle, when did you stop beating your husband?”
Short answer, she never will. She has been the dominant one since the day they first met, and has never let him forget for a second.
I think he is genuinely afraid of her. She is, after all, his controller for the larger Shadow Party that was behind his “meteoric” rise in political fortunes, and he stands to suffer most grieviously should he falter at any juncture.
IMHO, Obama was “hired” because he was black. Hopefully, he’ll be “unhired” because he’s incompetent.