A couple of anecdotes--
When I was in Silver Spring, Md., a few years ago, I tried to ask passersby for directions to a certain street, but got responses such as, "get away from me!" I finally had to find the street on my own.
In Cedar City, Utah, I hit a patch of snow while trying to parallel park and wound up skidding so that I was perpendicular to the street, then I couldn't drive away because my wheels were stuck in the snow. A group of teenagers suddenly appeared and pulled my car out. I figured that's one of the ways in which "red" states differ from "blue" states.
” When I was in Silver Spring, Md., a few years ago, I tried to ask passersby for directions to a certain street, but got responses such as, “get away from me!” I finally had to find the street on my own. “
That was a nice place to live 30-40 years ago.
I had a similar experience in East Tennessee...I had pulled off the road with a flat tire, and was in the middle of changing it when a group of teen-agers pulled up; offering to help us with the flat. Since I was nearly done; I declined, and they drove off. My wife (a native but reformed New Englander) was stunned to see teen-agers offering to help...she thought they were going to carjack us. I smiled..."welcome to Tennessee...welcome to the United States."