When you first told me that, during that ugly business in March, I thought you just might be certifiable. In fact, I rolled my eyes. But as it sunk in, I found that I was really and truly free. Nobody gets to live rent free in my head anymore. It was a life changer for me.
Now, I show up. I say what I need to and don't worry about who is saying what about me on which thread. I don't waste my time trying to correct their perception of me because that was clearly making things worse. God has better plans for my time.
So, fml, while you call Laz a kiss @ss, I call him a FRiend who impacted my life in a positive way. Whose life have you changed for the better lately? If the answer is "I don't know," then "you're doing it wrong."
Wow. Best payoff ever. Thank you for letting me serve you.
Now that you have this, I have a backstory for you. I didn't tell you then because if you dwell here, it will kill the benefit. But now that you have this, you can be told. Again, WARNING, if you dwell here, the benefit flits away.
That said, here it is: What people say when they are doing the denegration thing, obviously, has nothing to do with you. But it does speak to where THEY are.
It is the second and less important reason why it is none of your business. It really is none of your business!
Turns out he understood better than me.
O, and also, do not be too hard on fml. They are doing the best they can with the tools they have.