Can you refute it?
Waiting.
Maybe waiting
I drove people a round this morning. None of them were members of the LDS Church. BTW I would never asked them to pay me back. If i needed a ride some time I may ask them, but not to pay me back. I don't know how your relatives or friends would react to someone asking for a ride.
I stopped at TocoBell for lunch a man tapped on my window in the parking lot and said he was hungry.
I shared my lunch with him. I didn't need three Tocos anyway.
I don't know your relatives or friends so I can not refute what they would do.