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To: marychesnutfan

My mom died at age 47. I was young and self absorbed but I did get the chance to tell her I loved her. No mom is perfect, but no other mom is YOUR mom. If you can forgive her, please do, and tell her so. Not for her, but for you. Then you will never have to live your life with regrets.


38 posted on 04/27/2012 6:55:22 AM PDT by maxter (We cannot let freedom fade under our watch.)
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To: maxter

This is not a matter of an “imperfect” mother. My earliest memory is not warm on any level.

I’ve forgiven her and to see us you might think there was some feeling going on.

Regrets! My brother killed himself, the other brother is in the pen for life (has done 20 years already) and I have my own suicidal inclinations (only occasionally now) to deal with and her to thank for them.

I kind of just wish she’d cash in finally - 87 years too long. And I am making sure she is safe, comfortable and well taken care of (not living with me tho). She has Alzheimers.

I just get sick and tired of those oozing over happy memories of childhood. And everyone always ASSUMES every old person was damn SAINT!


41 posted on 04/27/2012 7:04:25 AM PDT by marychesnutfan
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