Precisely my experience. I am divorced after 19 years of marriage and single for the last 11. I have found 1 woman in those 11 years worth her salt, and she is deathly afraid of a relationship because she has been clobbered twice. It has been a tough, tough relationship road for me. I am a banker, Christian, very active in church and have many, many friends, known and respected in the community and am now in my mid-50's. Many have shown interest, most of whom were quite attractive. But most are either very shallow, display an intolerable degree of arrogance or have major moral shortcomings. I have pretty much given up.
...then you’re in my prayers sir! Finding a “virtuous woman” is very hard these days. I know that my wife would never leave or cheat on me, that’s hard enough to find - so I consider myself quite lucky.
In general I think it’s becoming obvious just how lost the world is becoming. We behave like children, and it’s not getting better. All of this “man made” wisdom is coming to fruition...I wonder what we’ll do then ;)
Don’t give up. !!! As long as there’s a “me” out here, you can find her.