It's not spite, it weakness, and it's not some kind of quid pro quo threat I just have my limits. I try and try and after a time I fall short.
The same one who tempts her to say no, tempts me when I'm down.
>>I just have my limits.<<
God has no limits. He doesn’t give you anything you can’t handle. Talk to your pastor and have him speak to her.
Check out the website www.themarriagebed.com. (I am not affiliated in any way) It’s a Christian marriage & relationship forum. Lots of people in many different situations go there to ask questions, share advice and offer encouragement.
Many of the forum topics are very blunt, so it’s not for the easily offended... I wouldn’t let the wife know you are interested in the site, though. She’ll interpret it that you are trying to figure out what is wrong with her, and that’s not what you need right now. Anyway, that’s my free advice of the day; worth every penny. ;)