I would move on with my life, but I would never forgive them. I think I am just different from you and her. Maybe I’ll change with age.
Maybe you will. I have. And so has this woman. We have learned that the only thing that matters for your happiness is what is inside of you. And that needs to be guarded against all kinds of negative emotions. And hatred is the most negative emotion out there. I believe she has achieved the peace inside of herself that only forgiveness and letting go of hatred and anger can bring you.