I would not say irresponsible, and I don’t think the poster meant that. You love your dog, you treat him well, he obeys you...when he wants. Not everyone is the perfect “boss” to their dog. Because dogs aren’t people, and as people, it isn’t easy thinking like a dog :) or understanding why they do what they do. So I know this has all been very trying what with moving and where are you going to live and what will become of your wonderful furry companion.