Yup-already happening. It never was about gays in the military. Those who wanted to serve have been doing so with honor for many years. As you said, it was about marriage, benefits and healthcare (which is likely to cost a LOT for the high-risk population = something we never hear about!)
Food for thought One of the things that is considered when they will issue you a security clearance is sexual activity. It’s one of the top five.
Gotta run.