Let me tell you a story that a guy from Africa had told me and it should give a reasonable mindset about most black fathers.
He was new to my city and he came when it was January and about minus 10 Fahrenheit. He called his father, who was in Africa, and asked for some money so he could get proper winter clothing, as he had none. His father’s response was to tell his son that his call was no longer clear and the father promptly hung up the phone. He let his son figure out how to get funds to pay for the clothes he needed.
Sounds like a good dad.