I don’t recall anyone saying that Jose’s extended family was “perfect”.
The police had numerous opportunities to apprehend Jose outside of his home, where he wouldn’t have had access to his AR.
They chose to confront him in his home, with his family inside. Poor judgement resulting in a man being killed solely for being under suspicion of committing a crime. And yet, after all of this time, I’ve not seen any evidence presented to support the police allegations that he was involved in any crime.
Based on your statement, I suppose you believe that a son should be held responsible for his father’s sins?
You can choose your friends, not your family.
It’s easy to say, “they should arrest him outside the house.” However, you never know if a person you try to arrest outside a house is going to shoot it out, then you have a shoot out in an open environment where bystanders can get hurt.