Only because you are incapable of seeing either the analogy or the distinction. Everyone is a "FREELOADER" by this standard, which is thus devoid of significance.
Society PAYS soldiers with tax money.
Society PAYS garbage haulers, and fines people who accumulate garbage.
People PAY for medical care.
Parenting is uncompensated.
Only if you're the kind of parent whose kids want nothing to do with you after you move out, in which case it's your own damn fault.