SO happy to NOT have grown up in the Gay Bay! FYI, and FWIW, what happens in the SF Gay Bay is NOT how much of the rest of the state of California acts. The SF Gay Bay, along with much of the coastline (including L.A.) are the exception, not the rule.
NYC has 11 year olds studying different types of condoms and writing reviews and mapping routes to abortion clinics... don’t want to know about the homework.
There is no opt out either.
Parents who stay silent are what is destroying this country