It is not males, it is ‘not the father’.
If you study primates the ‘not the father’ will almost always beat or kill their not the spring.
A guy named Desmond Morse (sp) wrote a series of books viewing humans as animals (he was an animal specialist). Very interesting.
The ‘not the father’ in most primate cultures killed or damaged the other man’s offspring.
The bottom line, biological father and mother is the optimum place for offspring.
We are not animals. Yes a committed loving marriage is the best place for children. However, you are smearing all the wonderful adoptive fathers and stepfathers that love their non biological children as their own.
Cherry, I have read back on some of your posts. Whatever your problems with the men in your life you would be well served to stop projecting them on all men.