Blaming the voter for the party's shortcomings is not a good strategy for making a strong party.
-- I don't see Romney as a saviour but at least he's not Obama. --
What has Obama done that affects your life in a seriously negative way? Congress is the source of all the laws; and most people are only moderately affected by even the most inane federal legislation. The financial collapse and oppressive taxes are coming regardless of which party continues the "big federal government" Social Security, Medicare and other safety nets. Demographics is destiny.
-- Talk about cutting off your nose to spite your face. --
I don't see the political system as "my nose," and neither is the GOP. They aren't even a wild hair on my butt (which wild hair I would not miss if it fell off). The party is just not that important, and won;t be until it picks up the challenge of making meaningful change.
Only if you support the Constitution which o ignores, and Congress ignores that.