I’m not picking on Catholics, cause are one. And not by birth/marriage, but ny choice. And because I understand the fact that the Church is the one true Church, I expect more from us than any other denomination. We need to clean our House first, before we worry about others.
Hopefully you two can kiss and make up. Like they say all politics is local, all religion is local. I don’t go to a congregation that’s affiliated with any denomination, let alone a congregation or denomination big enough to have employees whose health care plan in turn would be seized by Obamacare. But I believe I could do some consciousness raising about it, and see if our pastor groks the situation.