I think you’re exactly right. Moreover, I find the attacks on Ann and Drudge to be ridiculous. Let’s just stipulate that it’s ok to have different opinions without being called a “fag” or a “fag hag.”
It’s not just name-calling. Just google Drudge gay and you can see a whole lot of quotes, testimony and supporting evidence on various sites including, if I recall, a gay former Bush admin guy attesting to the fact. It’s long been public knowledge Drudge and Coulter are close friends (discussed on his old radio show for one thing). And there are YouTube videos of Ann talking about her gay friends in great detail and about speaking at gay Republican groups.