[Matchett-PI]

PSYCHO-FREEP to BenKenobi: "I guess if you had your way, they would all be burned at the stake for their “transgressions” from which there is no forgiveness or repentance. Seriously dude, that is exactly how you come across."

For the self-righteous, below is something to consider:)

Sexual Secrets of the Normal ~ Robert W. Godwin, PhD -forensic clinical psychology

[BenKenobi]

That directed at me or Psycho?

Good article. I guess you mean that last part - that marriage becomes the home for the unrealized expectations?

Yes, and no. That’s a really good point, marriage with me in it becomes less than just marriage - but the point is that marriage helps us to fulfill marriage without God we couldn’t stand a chance.

I’m not asking for a perfect marriage - far from it. I am saying that if you do marry, that you work through the rough patches.

It is hard, really hard. Believe me, I understand some of it, even if I don’t understand all of it. And there’s a lot that is a total mystery to me.