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To: tobyhill

While I never have heard of someone taking a dead baby home, I know several folks who have lost newborns and had family come into the room to share the grief with parents and young siblings. At first I thought it was creepy. But after having two kids of our own I can understand it more.

Also, this is not something anyone does without the advice of a counselor. I am sure there were folks from the hospitall that helped them through this.

Unusual for sure. But I would not want to walk in those shoes.


6 posted on 01/02/2012 8:22:58 PM PST by Vermont Lt (I just don't like anything about the President. And I don't think he's a nice guy.)
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To: Vermont Lt

Grief causes people to do things that seem strange to others not experiencing it. Been there (relatively speaking - not this scenario in particular and would not want to).

But Skeletor needs a shunning. Any decent person should flat refuse to appear with him on TV or anywhere else. His ‘apology’ is BS.


14 posted on 01/02/2012 8:27:35 PM PST by Norm Lenhart (Chief Druid of Trollhenge: Cult of Palin)
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To: Vermont Lt

1. He was in a state of grief. What is weird in a normal state didn’t seem weird at the time. And there’s the expectation or promise of “bringing the baby home”. He did. It was just dead.
2. The “reborn” babies seem weirder to me, making dolls of the dead kids.
3. The women who make baby dolls and then treat them as real babies is frankly way crazier. Babying dogs is only slightly less crazy.


16 posted on 01/02/2012 8:28:09 PM PST by tbw2
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To: Vermont Lt
It was very common in the old days and I believe there's some religious sects that still do it.
17 posted on 01/02/2012 8:28:19 PM PST by tobyhill (Obama, The Biggest Thief In American History)
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To: Vermont Lt

This is second time I’ve read of a family taking a stillborn neonate home for time with the family. Just guessing, I think it brings the reality of the baby home to any siblings, acknowledges the baby as a member of the family, and brings some emotional closure.


131 posted on 01/02/2012 9:17:32 PM PST by ArmyTeach (Our liberties we prize and our rights we will maintain ... USS Iowa BB 61)
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To: Vermont Lt

I understand the Santorums completely. There was a miscarriage in my family. Didn’t get a chance to say hello or goodbye.

Colmes is the dregs.


164 posted on 01/02/2012 9:29:58 PM PST by Lauren BaRecall (Boehner, you deal making THUG B@st@rd!)
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To: Vermont Lt
In the 18-1900's sometimes the only thing people had to remember their
deceased children was a death photo. Colmes should be railroaded off FOX.

257 posted on 01/02/2012 11:00:22 PM PST by MaxMax
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To: Vermont Lt

I recently watched the first filmed version of “A Christmans Carol.” The actors who played Bob Cratchit did an incredibly good job. At the end of the Christmas future part, “BOB” comes home tonthe family after looking where “Tiny Tim” is to be buried. He greets the family, and their console him, then cheered up he goes up to the bedroom, where we see the dead child lying in the bed, and he grieves over him. Scrooge, looking on with Death, is profoundly moved, and I must say that I was also. But this is how the dead once were treated, are still treated in Muslim countries, where the bodies were was by the family, and wrapped in a shroud before burial, and quickly buried. We try to airbrush death, from the scene, and now no longer even bury our dead, but put them into an oven, to be consumed by the flames.


269 posted on 01/02/2012 11:42:36 PM PST by RobbyS (Christus rex.)
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To: Vermont Lt
Barbara Bush had a miscarriage and she took him home in a jar for awhile. I don't know how long, or exactly why. But everyone grieves in their own way.

Colmes needs a serious wake up call to the back of the head with a lead pipe. Put the mutant atrocity out of his misery.

343 posted on 01/03/2012 12:56:24 PM PST by hinckley buzzard
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