God bless you in your loss, I too lost a son at age 24, you never get over the loss of a child. Grief takes many forms, and cannot be explained to the ignorant.
I see nothing wrong in what the Santorums did or did not do, it was grief of a little baby, and was a personal decision for them whatever they did. Even if they made it public, some things just do not need a negative response.
Thank you. And God Bless you. My Faith sustains me and I am grateful for the life I enjoy and look forward to the life that awaits me. Mariner cannot comprehend what he has not experienced, and I hope that he can stay in his state of ignorance for as long as possible..