He is a Baptist preacher you ever think that maybe the money he gave was not his but the Lords(TITHES).
Not saying it is or it isn’t. Question then if it is the Lords money what does he supposed to do with it?
Deu 15:19
And the Levite, (because he hath no part nor inheritance with thee,) and the stranger, and the fatherless, and the widow, which are within thy gates, shall come, and shall eat and be satisfied; that the LORD thy God may bless thee in all the work of thine hand which thou doest.
So then what is a Levite.
Numbers 18:6
And I, behold, I have taken your brethren the Levites from among the children of Israel: to you they are given as a gift for the LORD, to do the service of the tabernacle of the congregation.
So then it this was the Lords money he is doing Exactly what he supposed to do. Help the needy and its between him and the Lord NOT him and his wife.
Ezekiel 16
48 As I live, saith the Lord YHWH, Sodom thy sister hath not done, she nor her daughters, as thou hast done, thou and thy daughters.
49 Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom: pride, fulness of bread, and careless ease was in her and in her daughters; neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.