Didn't see your reply, so I'll assume you are married. So, you tell your wife every time you give money to someone or some organization with charitable intentions? Do you also tell her when you stop to have a beer with your friends?
Hey brother, spare a dime for a cup of coffee?
Sorry, I have to check with my wife.
Which leads to the next question. How many cups of coffee did Cain buy for this woman?
The silliness continues. You are comparing that to someone giving money to another woman over the course of years and not telling his wife?
If I recall correctly that person is divorced. If I’m wrong they can clear it up. OMG, maybe she left him because he gave money to someone without asking her permission and that is why he sees this as a marriage breaker! ;) /s