Thanks for the links. I’m bandwidth challenged right now so I’ll take your word for it.
She seems believable on the videos. (Not credible, but believable.) But there is zero evidence, other than her words. No photos, no receipts, no cards/letters, no nothing to show 13 years of a relationship. It's bizarre. Very bizarre.
Personally, I'm of the “innocent until proven guilty” mindset. Another few days or weeks of withholding judgment isn't going to kill us.