I give money to people all the time and I’m not talking $20. My spouse does not know, he views people and life different than I do. Some people prefer to spend money on themselves, while others prefer to give what they can to people who need it. I like to know my money is going directly to the person I intended it to go. We can afford it.
For the most part he knows the people I give money to but not always. Haven’t had an affair with any of them.
I do know that sometimes if I know longer wish to give money to certain people, they have turned on me. I do it anyway.
And if it was the same man over 13 years that you texted at 4am etc - your husband would rightfully explode at you and divorce you.
There is no excuse for this garbage from Cain. He is done - good riddance Cain - GO AWAY!
Those that actually do good do not want the glory. Our old preacher , when. I was a kid, would give your his food if he thought you were hungry.