I’m so sorry to hear that. I would hope your wife would have a little more confidence and trust in you.
I am sure my wife would ask me about the 61 texts and calls to/from this woman. Of course, if it was to/from a woman I was giving cash to (which Herman admits) the trust thing would disappear in a hurry if I told her I was just try to help the poor lady. After I had my attorney draw up a statement like ol Herman’s drew up about the whole sordid affair, I am sure any remaining trust would be gone.