So moose it appears that you are saying 61 phone calls and text over long time period, some of which are in the middle of the night means Cain is guilty of an affair.
Seriously, even writing that makes me laugh.
All that information means is that 61 calls and text happened over a long period of time.
The part about his cell phone number, big poo. I might have his cell phone number along with dozens and dozens of other people.
All that means is that dozens and dozens of people have his number and she is one of them.
Sixty plus calls and texts to and from a married man to a single woman, who do not work together, within four months and including some in the wee hours, together with a thirteen year "friendship" that the wife doesn't know about, together with the exchange of monies over time does scream affair.