LOL!
You can’t have your own smart independantly thinking intellectually stimulating friends... Unless they themselves are GIVEN independantly thinking intellectually stimulating friends to them by someone else....
Beleive it or not “Intellecutal Affairs” have been used as excuses for divorace against Men for at least the last 30-40 years, even when it has been proven there is absolutely no sex, kissing or even touching involved....
Moral Relativism ran amuck!