I also differentiate "homosexuality" with "homosexual behavior". Who you're attracted to is uncontrollable (I think) and goes back to my original premise. Who you have sex with is nothing more than behavior that can be controlled. For instance - married people who are faithful to their partners, do it every day.
It's a distinction, IMHO, that's completely lost on gays. They confuse the underlying premise, with the act itself.
Not that my opinion matters all that much, the whole thing has been so politicized that we'll never know the underlying causes.
Except in the homosexual hive mind, there’s no concept of marital (or even “partner”) faithfulness, not in any sane sense of the word. Monogamy is the exception, not the rule.