Do not blame women, exactly, but feminism.
Delegitimization of the male role model, and the best of the differences between men and women, for the worst of results; Feminism has redefined the role of men, from the perspective of the feminist woman, and shamed men into compliance through political correctness.
A great book I am reading which is hitting on this;
The Revolt of the Primitive; An inquiry into the Roots of Political Correctness
by Howard Schwartz
I’m getting a fair bit of experience in this area. I find that men willingly step out of their role when their women push feminism on them. They are all too happy to let go of their responsibilities, of their pressures. If she wants it, let her freakin have it.
Then we wonder why our marriages are falling apart. We wonder why we don’t love the person we are married to anymore. We wonder why we have no respect for them, or why they don’t love or respect us.
There is a phenomenal movie out there on this subject, called “Not Easily Broken”. It shows the failings on both sides of the marriage bed.