[palmer]

These things are not minor, they are not quickly dispatched, and they do not simply go away with an agreement among the parties.

BS. They are common, done by disgruntled gold diggers all the time, and especially at a place like NRA (organization is dumb as rocks with deep pockets). The reality is that these types of allegations and settlements were and are a dime a dozen.

[JimInMO]

Understand what you are saying. My question/point is not about the seriousness (or lack of) the allegations. My question/point is about the stated minimalist announcement by Herman to Gloria, and their subsequent brief, few, and nonrecurring followup talks. It just does not seem to compute with me in any marital relationship that something(s) so ugly and emotionally explosive are said to have received so little discussion between them. Sure as heck would not have happened that way here in my home, I assure you!!!!!