Thanks for the reply and links. I’ll try to post ‘em at C4P...if they haven’t banned me. :-)
Quick story to reinforce your comments...
I lost my wife (literally the girl next door) to breast cancer at 28. Raising 2 daughters aged 1 and 4 (or they raised me) was not easy yet provided some of the happiest moments of my life.
I never re-married but seemed to find many women who pretended to be Christian, conservative and faithful - yet they all cheated to varying degrees.
I remain hopeful of finding a new Miss Right but I’m now going forward with eyes wide open.
Thanks again, JSNM.
I’m sorry for your loss :-( Prayers for you and your girls.