—It really is shocking a charismatic and powerful man has been fooling around on his wife.—
What do you mean by that? Nobody has come forward. What should he own up to? Where is the evidence? There is not even a named claimant yet.
What evidence do you need? Video? Notarized statements? This parsing of events in defense of Cain is sad. If a shred of all this gossip is true then he was fooling around. He needs to deal with that then. This is only disqualifying if we make it!