I think there is an element of truth to this. I’ve been in two firms where obese partners had such self image issues that it created problems throughout the department. From adultery to insecurity to ego trips, not to mention the dishonesty in promotions and compensation and quality controls that resulted
Such phenomena are a tell-tale sign that the firm is making too much money. Eventually, something will happen to change this situation.
Here in Hollywood, NO ugly receptionist gets hired in the major studios. If you are in sales, and I’ve been employed in sales-driven corporations, good looks WILL get you ahead. It’s that simple.
I was down in the Philippines for business and it did not shock me that it is “common” practice for new applicants to send in their pictures, along with the resume. The HR managers are already conditioned to hire good looking people because they are thought to be more affable in the work environment.
Before I went Christmas shopping, I used to "prep" for a Power-Shop (nicest outfit, hair, nails, make up, the works). The first time it happened, it drove my husband nuts...until he saw the effect it had on counter service staff when I entered the store.
Head up, shoulders back, I strode into the store like a woman on a mission. Scruffy moms with kids in tow would be overlooked as staff flocked to help me. An hour later, our arms were both heavy with bags and we'd bought presents for 30 people.
He was stunned.
I know for a fact that my looks landed me two different positions. Don't feel too bad about it, since I went through adolescence as a lanky creature with glasses, braces, and no boyfriends. Late blooming ugly duckling turned semi-swan.
There are days I'm the scruffy mom with 3 kids in tow; folks treat me with less respect until I start talking. Since I'm still thin and have always been tall, I can still whip out the Power-Shop gal if needed.
I learned rather quickly that how you present yourself makes all the difference in the world.