ARG! I’m sorry.
I will sign out to keep from annoying everyone with my double posts!:/
Best way to do it, imho, is right click the 'post reply' link in a thread you wanna post to, and then click 'open in new window' (or similar, depending on your browser).
Then after you've typed your reply in the new window/tab, hit 'post' once and return to the original thread (in the other window/tab) while the cogs are turning on your new post.
Clear ?
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