Ha, well, you brought it up first and set me off... :0)
As far as “who would allow their spouse”...I don’t know... just someone really slimy.
We’ve discussed this a bit on our local FR board.
How most of us would kill our husbands for doing the stuff that creep has done. And right away in January, and ongoing!
But, as someone else posted once, it is what leftists do... so if the shoe were on the other foot, she probably would have done the same to him. The marriage seemed to be just another one of political convenience, even a few years ago.