To: SmithL
I was a single mother and raised two. Thank goodness they are both well-adjusted, married to wonderful spouses, well-off, and two of the strictest parents I know.
Honestly, I can’t tell you how that happened as I practically raised them by phone from work 50 miles away and on business trips. But I did devote every waking minute to them when I was off work. We played together so hard, and in the evenings were glad to see each other and discuss our days together. I didn’t have anybody else to talk to so they were it! As they got older, they nick named me Cliff (obnoxious Cliff from Cheers that rattled on and on), lol
15 posted on
07/20/2011 11:56:08 AM PDT by
RowdyFFC
To: RowdyFFC
Obviously you were a grown up. We are in such short supply these days.
19 posted on
07/20/2011 11:58:29 AM PDT by
brytlea
(Someone the other day said I'm not a nice person. How did they know?)
To: RowdyFFC
I...raised them by phone from work 50 miles away and on business trips. But I did devote every waking minute to them when I was off work.
THERE IN LIES THE CRUX! You were a loving parent and did all that you could do to ensure that your being single wasn't a negative!
What this "study" doesn't mention is that many single parents feel burdened by those kids (see Casey Anthony, Susan Smith, etc...)!
33 posted on
07/20/2011 12:28:19 PM PDT by
ExTxMarine
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