Yep the mouth the man refuses to hear because it is NOT in his own interest.... The majority of my life has been MALE preachers claiming that Adam (the first recorded liberal) blaming GOD and 'that' woman was the WORD... It was not until I read the words without the help of some male that I read them for what and who was doing the 'itching'.... I have taken to 'heart' that this man Adam set the stage for what would be to come. 'That woman', seemingly has served the man for eons.... but in that 'case' it was the itch that Adam did 'listen' to the woman, in spite of what he was told directly by the Heavenly Father.... Man has through the ages demonstrated he can be the smallest of minds literally and/or figuratively created.
It has been my own personal experience that a man can out gossip and itch and whine any female I have ever met.
I've met some men like that too. My wife and I have been married over 30 years, and have never had any major arguments. She has her interests and I have mine. We do share some common ones and those get priority.
There was a saying about three things to never mention when one of the other is upset: Kids, money and letting the kids drive.
Honey, where are we going to get the money to get the kids a car to drive to school? - - - And THAT is when the fight started.