>>He won his case, but lost his reputation and all respect as a father<<
I don’t think he cares at all.
Our neighbor admitted that he looks at his fourteen year old daughter’s boobs when she wears a bathing suit.
I thought, “Well, slip of the tongue. He didn’t mean to say that,”
So I said, “Seriously, you don’t look at your own flesh and blood that way, do you?”
He said, “OH NO, I’m serious. If she’s got them hanging out, I’m looking.”
I told my husband that this pervert is never to be left alone with my girls.
You got a HUGE clue to the character of this guy. I would avoid him like the plague. I would tell my daughters to avoid him like the plague as well. Anything can be explained to a child, no matter the age, depending on how you phrase it. Your story gave me goose bumps!