[ELS]

My priest made it very clear that modesty was expected. No bareback and shoulders, plunging necklines.

Yes, good for him. The bride and bridesmaids could wear a nice bolero jacket or shrug during the Mass/church service and then remove it outside of church for the reception.

[defconw]

Well, he told me. He really did not have to worry about me. I always dress conservatively. I was older then the average bride.