So it is only a sin if you go hunting to find a woman to lust after??
Would you say that one would have to desire to kill someone to have God declare you a murderer ?
Mat 5:22 But I say to you that every one who is angry with his brother shall be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother shall be liable to the council, and whoever says, 'You fool!' shall be liable to the hell of fire.
Your 107 cites a line from Eepsy’s post 103
(here http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/news/2711746/posts?page=103#103), but is addressed to me.
Perhaps you meant to ask her?